Things I am thankful for

<p>What a great thread. How can so many happy things make me cry?</p>

<p>I’m thankful for my dad, who never met a stranger, and stayed optimistic throughout his 10 month struggle with cancer. He was a national horseshoe champion. When he entered the hospital for the last time, the one concession he made for his illness was that he decided that, upon discharge, to finally take advantage of the “senior” rules for horseshoes that would allow him to stand closer in. I’m thankful that I was able to fly home, and hold his hand when he died.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for my verbal firstborn, who will talk to me about anything, open, honestly and incredibly logically, whether it be school problems, girl problems, or what’s wrong with the world. His observations have led me to discover trivial things, like the effect of economics on politics, or important things, like how very blue the sky gets in the evening. He taught us that we were the very best parents in the world – assuming that the end justifies the means.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for my second son, whom we fully expected to become a millionaire used-car salesman, with his infectious, impish personality. He amazed us by composing his first 5-note song before he could talk, and continues to communicate with music rather than words. He consoled us when he sensed we were sad, by singing to us – Jingle Bells, in May, because “a song might could help you feel better, Mommy.” He brought music into our lives with such passion and intensity, it makes us proud that he can do it, and humbled that we can’t.</p>

<p>I’m thankful that “I finally got a girl.” A girl who has always preferred lizards to lace, and who filled her dollhouse with dinosaurs. A girl who, at 16, is still willing to hug her old mother, and have the tip of her nose kissed. A girl who continues to amaze and delight us with her courage and adaptability, no matter what we throw at her.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for a DH who puts up with me with amazing tolerance and patience, and pretends that it’s nothing. Who has brought me coffee in bed nearly every single morning of the past 24 years. Who has worked his butt off so I can stay home and spend all my time on CC.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for the people in the US who email me, pray for me, and haven’t forgotten me.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for the Germans who are patient with my language skills, and for the English-speaking friends I have here. I’m thankful for the teacher at the Army post I met this week, who has lived in Germany for 15 years, but graduated from my high school in Erie, PA!</p>

<p>I’m thankful for the beautiful Bavarian sunsets, the changing leaves, cobblestone paths, the ability to walk to stores, schools, post office, or downtown, yet live next to a farmer’s field.</p>

<p>And I’m thankful for the reminder to stop and consider all I am thankful for!</p>

<p>Oooohhhh… I thought of another one.</p>

<p>I am thankful for the occasional hug that makes me feel safe from all of the problems surrounding me. :)</p>

<p>I am profoundly, eternally in awe of and grateful for the privilege of being allowed to have and raise my one wonderful son. He is a true miracle–I had only a 5% chance of a live birth, and he was conceived right after a painfully traumatic decision to stop trying, obtain permanent sterilization, and while practicing birth control. His father left (with the babysitter) when S was only an infant…but I regret not a minute of my failed marriage because w/out it I wouldn’t have had the pervasive joy of being my S’s mother. </p>

<p>I am also almost as thankful for my current ability–and oh how hard it is–to let S go, trusting in the strenght of our 18-year bond to know that while he is ready and eager for independence and adulthood, he’ll always love and trust and want some (perhaps minimal) time w/his mom…</p>

<p>And I’m thankful I can (mostly) find “me things” that bring me pleasure and satisfaction and fulfillment now that my daily job of mothering is at an end.</p>

<p>There’s also much gratitude to family and friends, faith (in God and in the future) and an upbringing from my own dear parents that shaped me into a person who can and did/does earn a comfortable living with pride in what I do. Money may not buy happiness, but it sure makes its pursuit much easier! And really liking how I spend my time earning money is a gift almost as miraculous as the wonder of having been blessed w/my son!</p>

<p>Finally, I’m thankful for CC, especially the Parents Forum and the Parents Cafe. I’ve made at least two “real friends” here, and many “virtual friends”…the support and encouragement we all provide to each other, and to each other’s kids, is an amazing thing…a fantastic byproduct of cyberspace, indeed…</p>

<p>This is a grand thread–soul-soothing and day-brightening. Thank you!</p>

<p>*I am thankful for the occasional hug that makes me feel safe from all of the problems surrounding me. *</p>

<p>I love hugs and having come from a family who wasn’t physically affectionate- I especially appreciate the ease that both my daughters hug their friends. ( even my 15 yr old still initiates lots of hugs :slight_smile: )</p>

<p>I am thankful for where I stand.
I am thankful for truth.
I am thankful for consequence.
I am thankful for time.
I am thankful for others.</p>

<p>Also, I’m thankful for CC. (duh)</p>

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<p>OAM~Your incredible son was SO meant to be, and he couldn’t have had a more loving, more nurturing, and more devoted mom!!! Boy, am <em>I</em> glad that you had him…without him, I wouldn’t have met you!!</p>

<p>love you lots, ~berurah</p>

<p>I am thankful for my mother and brother for raising me and provided a roof over my head.
I am thankful for my education right now, even though I’m struggling!
I am thankful for food
I am thankful for everything the Navy has provided for me
I am thankful for all the wonderful people I have met so far
I am thankful for musicians because I love music and miss it very much
I am thankful for my mother not spoiling me, because now I know things are more valuable when it comes from your own pocket (though I might not be able to buy a ticket home for Thanksgiving for getting that guitar and $122 skateboard :p)
I am thankful for having a nice roommate
I am thankful for Comsopolitian magazine for making Saturday nights worthwhile
I am thankful for protestant and gospel choir and making this year more pleasent.</p>

<p>I’m thankful that my parents love me and are proud of me. And thankful that I know it.
I’m thankful that even though my siblings are in two countries and three states that we are all involved in each others lives and get continually closer as we grow up.
I’m thankful for the opportunity to get an education. And for the opportunity to use that education to help others.
I’m thankful for cookies and ice cream.
I’m thankful for being pretty healthy and for having enough money for everything I really need.
I’m thankful for the smell of lilacs in spring, the sound of cicadas in summer, the sight of changing leaves in fall, and the smell of someone’s woodburning fireplace in the winter.
I’m thankful that I have the ability to learn fairly easily.
I’m thankful that I don’t know everything about myself, and yet know who I am.
I’m thankful that I’ve had the same best friend since I was eight years old, and even though we have become very different, i know she loves me and that i love her.
I’m thankful that bad boyfriends have taught me to rely on myself, and good boyfriends have taught me that I don’t always have to.
I’m thankful for the new friends I’ve made in college and have laughed with until i cried, and thankful for the friends that I’ve left behind.
I’m thankful that my dog is still alive. I don’t know how long that will last.
I’m thankful that I believe that most people in the world are truly good, and I’m thankful that there is so much love and beauty. More than I could ever recognize or be thankful for.</p>

<p>I am thankful I have had so much love in my life. It’s everywhere. What a blessing.
I am thankful I have the creative brain that I have. Sometimes the creative high is better than ahem–though ahem is plenty nice too.
I am thankful my two boys are healthy, happy and loved by their peers.
I am thankful I was born into an era of prosperity. Prosperity has fallen out of the sky and hit me on the head a hundred times in the last twenty five years.
I am thankful for all the earnest teachers and staff who slaved long hours to form the school days my sons attended. They are well educated for that effort. Praise the heavens.
I am thankful for the relative peace that enveloped the world as I ventured out into it with my H and sons. I love to try to extend my horizons with travel.
I am thankful writers take the time to construct books and articles. Could I survive without reading?</p>

<p>At the moment, I am mostly thankful for the beautiful spring days and the newly arrived daylight savings time! Weeeee heee!</p>

<p>Right now I’m thankful that expressing my opinions in a public forum doesn’t mean I’m going to be tracked down and imprisoned.</p>

<p>But yesterday I was thankful that my kids made it through midterms and are still in college, with only 3 1/2 semesters to go.</p>

<p>I am thankful that I am healthy, and that I have never suffered any serious illness.</p>

<p>I am thankful because I am not as stupid as I thought, and for the work ethics I learned during my college years and from my family.</p>

<p>I am thankful for being lucky enough to be in grad school, I am helpful for the opportunity to be living and studying far away from home in a different country and for the strength it has given me. I am thankful because I don’t feel as lonely as I did during my first weeks. And because I had barely enough courage not to give up. And for the friends that I have met here that make me very happy.</p>

<p>I am thankful because the family I left in my home country still care about me, although I live far. I miss them!</p>

<p>I am thankful for being so obdurate that I never give up in my dreams.</p>

<p>I am thankful for hugs, kisses and love. I am thankful because I have a roof, food and clothes.</p>

<p>I am thankful I can write in English, understand this posts and write one. Also for the tears they caused.</p>

<p>I am thankful for the friends who believe in me. And for a fiance with the most pure and loving heart, and for his sense of humour.</p>

<p>I am thankful for technology too, specially Internet and being able to know what happens in my country, even if I am in the US.</p>

<p>I am helpful because I am free, and I have always been. I am helpful because I can feel (love, hate, pain, pleasure, all)</p>

<p>I am helpful for my middle sister who everyday (even if she is very busy studying) sends me an e-mail telling me every detail of her life, so I don’t miss her that much. I am not sure she knows how much that means to me.</p>

<p>I am thankful because this thread convinces me most people is kind and that evil is not the rule, but the exception.</p>

<p>I am thankful because I am alive! I am thankful because I am happy!</p>

<p>mariana, I am thankful that you posted, and even more thankful my tired old eyes got to read your post. Beautifully done. Glad you are with us in the U.S. and on the board.</p>

<p>Thanks curmudgeon. It’s just that I have been so lucky in my life! I am grateful for that too, jeje</p>

<p>I am thankful that my D still snuggles with me, and that I am still picking tomatoes, peppers, beans, apples and grapes from the garden, and that when I walk to the top of the hill across the highway early in the morning, I can look out from the ridge and imagine what it was like here 100 years ago.
And EKity I’m thankful for this thread.</p>

<p>such a nice thread:)</p>

<p>I am thankful for my amazing mom, who I love dearly. I’m thankful that even after we have a fight and I promise myself that I won’t talk to her for the rest of the day, I just can’t resist giving her a loving hug and forgetting all our petty arguments.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for my dad, who works so hard to give us everything we have without ever complaining once. </p>

<p>I’m thankful for my 12 year old sister, who I constantly learn from, even when she doesn’t know it. I know that my successes and failures will affect her reality as well. I’m thankful that I am an inspiration in her eyes.</p>

<p>I am thankful that I have two parents who are willing to give the world to me. Every day, I use my mom’s credit card to pay for SAT score reports, test prep books, application fees, etc, and she never even thinks about all of the money I am using, as long as it is used to ensure my future.</p>

<p>I am thankful for our sweet neighbors, who always stop by to talk, and who are always willing to help us.</p>

<p>I am thankful for my friends, who always manage to bring laughter and sunshine into my life.</p>

<p>I’m thankful for this ideal fall day.:)</p>

<p>It is beautiful in October isn’t it. :slight_smile: The moon last night was just gorgeous.
I am thankful that we can take time to stop and think about what we want to do more of-
I am thankful that we have a small house and a small mortgage payment- an added and unforeseen benefit is that teens can’t hide out for days- you pretty much have to cross paths regularly!</p>

<p>I am with beruhah- I am thankful for all the amazing food we can grow or buy in the shops. The spices, the heirloom veggies, the organic hand fed, read stories to everynight beef, the amazing diversity of restaurants, from West african to Goa, to Thai, to Puerto Rican. I love it!</p>

<p>Binx I can relate to your stories about your son and his singing.
When my oldest was little, we had relaxing(guided meditation) tapes that we would play for her at night, becuase she had a hard time winding down.</p>

<p>It probably wasnt helped that her dad and I have " very different communication styles", when we were “talking” she would put on a tape and set it down at our feet. It was really sweet and made us much more aware of how our daughter saw us together.</p>

<p>It also reminds me of how thankful I was for our pets, especially our oldest cat. My youngest daughter had a even harder time going to sleep. She would often have night terrors, and scream so hard we couldn’t tell if she was asleep or awake. Nothing would comfort her enough to go back to asleep expect for “mamma kitty”, who oddly enough would seek her out when she was upset. A very sweet cat- I am grateful that both our cats stayed in our family for 20 and almost 22 years ( they died within a year of each other), long enough to see our kids grow up.</p>

<p>I really enjoying hearing the stories from you all, and I appreciate everyone who is taking the time to read or share :)</p>

<p>I am thankful that my sons did not succumb to being inundated with violent video games and movies which so robbed the mental lives of some of their relatives and too too many of their school mates. It was hard raising young boys in a culture that offered status to boys who owned the latest violent games, and whose parents screened nothing and often joined in on Grand Theft Auto binges etc. </p>

<p>Although I was not consistent or even totally strict, I am grateful my sons turned away from this worrisome aspect of our culture on their own, and took up interests in classical music, bluegrass, finer films, great literature,running, swimming, hiking, the visual arts and other soul food. </p>

<p>I am thankful that my 14 year old saw the trailer for the movie soon to be released based on a game called Doom this weekend…and came home disturbed that this is going to be a sellout when we can’t sell enough tickets to the Symphony, and our local theatre group just had to cancel three productions. </p>

<p>I am grateful that my youngest boy left his Personal Greatest Film List on his desk and he put Notorious down in the number one spot. Other films he rated top ten…The Heart is a Lonely Hunter, Gallipoli, The English Patient, Airplane 2…</p>

<p>I am grateful that my oldest boy left his list of “classical music I have listened to this year” in our computer when he left for college…and it had hundreds of entries lovingly arranged by genre and composer, so I am grateful for that guy who is the host of BBC 3 who brought weekly programming and culture to our home via radio, and opened my son up to another universe. </p>

<p>I am grateful for the Beaver Cleaver-era Boy Scout leader in our town who despite being totally square somehow managed to not lose his cool when yet another senior decided to do an Eagle project three months before he turned 18. His absolute sincerity, old-fashioned manners, and fatherly ways spoke volumes to my son and to many other callow young men.</p>

<p>I am grateful for my sons’ friends who were faster stronger athletes, but who loved my boys enough to inspire them to also follow them into a sport. Because of them, my sons grew fit and strong and learned that being in the game is worthwhile even if you are not the champ or the top point earner.</p>

<p>I am grateful for the woman who demonstrates true leadership year after year in our not-so-hot middle school…she talks hundreds of kids each year into joining band or strings, finds kids instruments whose parents can’t or won’t rent them, and she never humiliates anyone. She is one of the heros of our town, and should be paid triple her salary for bringing music to kids who otherwise would never hold an instrument in their hand.</p>

<p>I am grateful that I live in a smaller city so that every time I see a doctor, I am treated like a friend and a neighbor.</p>

<p>I am grateful that I can actually buy my daily food items in a little neighborhood grocery where all the families pin up their Christmas photos and you just say “charge it” when you walk out, and the lady at the register is named Peanut and doesn’t even have to ask your name.</p>

<p>I am grateful I was raised in a military family…the disruptions and the losses sometimes broke my heart, but the moves made me stronger and opened my eyes. I carry all the people and places I loved in my heart, where they surface and oddly continue to illuminate my life as I age up.</p>

<p>I am grateful my father had the guts to learn to fly fighter planes and later to pilot the largest planes in the world all over the globe. He served for very little salary all of his working years. He taught me not to be afraid, not to care much about money, and to choose to live outside of the borders of our country in my mind, in a wider view of Earth, sort of like what he saw from up there and what he absorbed every time he landed.</p>

<p>I am grateful to be the first woman on either side of my family tree to get a college education, and I remember those years with joy.</p>

<p>I am grateful for this forum, which has helped me cross new waters as a parent, and comforted me often with the company of thoughtful and funny like-minded aging-up parents.</p>

<p>Beautiful Faline!</p>

<p>Second what SB said!</p>

<p>thank you to “thoughtful and funny like-minded aging-up parents” SBmom and driver…and to many eloquent posters on this thread…it did sort of clear my head to see the bigger picture through your posts, too.</p>