You have to take ownership of the issues you are having. If it is health issues then you take the advice of a doctor or therapist but you have to be open to that advice and not dismiss it. You can’t just give up before trying and say nothing is going to help. If you have issues at school and the professors have office hours it is up to you to go and ask for help. If you don’t then you are not being proactive in helping yourself. If you fail a test that means you didn’t prepare well enough for it. You need to work on developing good study skills. Most students can’t afford to drop and repeat classes. It takes a lot of time and it is just too expensive. Develop those skills now before you transfer to a four year college.
Here on the forum you can ask questions and people can offer suggestions. You can dismiss those ideas or decide what I am doing on my own isn’t working maybe I can try this suggestion and see if it helps.
At the end of the day all the final decisions come down to you. Professionals can offer you advice but it is up to you to make positive changes in your life that will help you. Your quality of life and your happiness is dependent on the decisions you make for yourself in life.
Everyone has issues in life and we have to do the best we can under the circumstances we are in. No one else but you can decide what is the best for you.