Did you meet him at these visits…otherwise, where did he stay etc. And how did he get around? If he did it once alone, he can do it again…one would think.
Our DD also had all of her acceptances to her top three choices before December. Still, she wanted to go to accepted student days. The school that loved her the most…and boy did they ever (lots of correspondences, a huge merit scholarship, a private scholarship day because she couldn’t attend the one the college had, notes from students, birthday cards, swag…) ended up coming in second place after the accepted student visits.
The school that was second choice completely dropped off the list. The accepted student thing was not well run, and really turned DD off.
She sent her deposit on April 29.
We didn’t talk to DD at all about this. We let her make the decision in her own time. If she had decided to matriculate some place sooner, we would have been fine with that. We also supported the accepted student visits, and actually went along (we had friends and relatives to visit too).