I am NOT saying you will be like this - I’m going to share what happened with my first child. My mother in law had wrist surgery before I had my baby. But she wanted to be with this baby so badly and was so excited about it, she came days ahead of the due date and stayed through the first week. By the time my mom made it I was wiped out. I ended up having to also care for my mother in law. Nothing was outrageous, but she couldn’t really help at all and I ended up having to take care of her and have a new baby and recover from child birth. I don’t think my mom ever got over that.