<p>Thank you Mom, I never bashed the system, just said I was glad my daughter does not want any part of it. The cost is a huge part of it, especially since we are oos and not honors. Everything I have read has made me believe it is a very insular group and that is not the experience that I would want for my dd. I still do not see how in my above post I made any stereotypical comments about the Greek system. Unfortunately, I believe perceived notions about the Greek system in southern schools is what keeps many from the northeast from applying. If someone were to tell me right now that my dd’s college experience would be ruined by not joining a sorority, I would never let her attend. To be honest, I am more concerned about her being a Jew in the south then anything else.</p>