<p>Except for Colgate, I believe the schols you list are on the ‘most friendly to LBGT’ list.</p>
<p>Amherst and Haverford are known for having a significant ‘alternative’ population actually. Comparing these schools to Oberlin or Vassar, obviously Oberlin and Vassar will have a livelier LBGT community, as that is something they are known for. So that is a bit unfair. But I would expect a welcoming community if I were you.</p>