Because you live in CT and are out of state for the public colleges you mentioned, I would eliminate those first. As an out of state student, it will be harder to get in and a lot more expensive since publics are not known to give very good aid. One automatic safety that immediately comes to mind is your instate public, UConn. With your stats, I’m positive you can earn some merit money. You may not love the idea, but it’s certainly a good last resort.
From your original list, that leaves Brown, Bowdoin, USC, Pomona, Northwestern, Emory, Tulane, and Colgate. I see that there has been talk of weather, and I would suggest not eliminating any school because of that. This is coming from a kid in California going to a school on the East Coast not exactly known for it’s warmth. In fact, all the schools I applied to had pretty harsh winters.
I can’t tell you which of those to pick, but I would like to advocate for some schools. I’ve heard great things about Bowdoin and a friend who visited and applied said she fell in love with the school and was probably one of the best colleges she visited. I visited Colgate and fell in love with the school. It’s a great place to be, and I consider it one of the more lively LACs. All these schools have solid reputations, so these are just personal blurbs.
Some safeties and matches with your stats include: DePauw, Bucknell, Kenyon, Wake Forest, George Washington, Denison. Some of these are not sure fire safeties, but they are matches you have a great chance at. As long as you have two safeties (both financially and admissions wise), I do not see any problem.
A potential list I would apply to if I had your stats that has a good mix with all the schools mentioned: Brown, Bowdoin, Colgate, Emory, USC, Bucknell, Wake Forest, Denison, UConn, and possibly one more instate public. Maybe keep Tulane or add GW if you like it enough. It has the mix you want. These schools largely vary in size, location, and weather, so you can keep having your options open. 10 schools may or may not be too much for your preferences. This list is still probably considered top heavy, but there are a great deal of matches that you should have at least a 50/50 chance at.