You may be looking at a lot of debt to attend med school, but try to limit your debt load where you can. (Your future self will thank me for this advice.)
Note that schools that are need-blind and meet need for first-year admits do not always extend those policies to transfer students — you need to look into the aid policies for each school. We’ve established that you cannot expect help from the UC schools, for example. So you will likely need a lot of private loans to attend, which your parents will have to sign or co-sign. Are they up for that?
Also, may I ask why you would not consider Rutgers, which I’m assuming is your in-state flagship? It appears you are already finding some opportunities to get engaged in your area of study there.