While I don’t think moving to California would be wise from personal experience I know how badly a toxic home situation can affect your academic performance. My suggestion to you is to find a way to move out of your parents house. Get a job, maybe attend a pennsylvania cc to collect the aid you need to survive. Your life won’t be perfect it will be difficult for sure but for me it was a step in the right direction. Hoping to transfer to UCB from a CCC next year. Anyway good luck