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<p>Yep, this is exactly right. I, for example, have stopped doing the Psi U/Eclectic party thing for the most part, while plenty of my friend still go (or at least did last year). But I always had some friends who a) don’t like parties at all or b) weren’t up for a party that night, and we find other things to do. At least in my experience, you will find a diversity of people wanting to party and not (any given weekend and in general) within friend groups: as momindeed suggests, people make friends based on how well they get along, not whether or not they party on the weekends. </p>
<p>I agree with smartalic abotu realtionships to Profs. If you put in even a little effort (going to office hours, making sure to take small classes) it is very easy to get very close to profs.</p>