<p>It sounds like you would be a great fit for Wes. There is TONS to do if you don’t want to drink/only want to drink casually, instead of getting sh**faced every weekend. In fact, at least in my experiance, most people don’t get THAT drunk all the time. And there are only like, two kind-of-sketchy frats (and a couple not-so-sketchy ones), and many people go to them rarely or not at all. </p>
<p>For example, a typical weekend for me might look like:</p>
<p>Thursday: Watch Firefly with friends after finishing my homework (I have Friday class)</p>
<p>Friday: Go to class and cardio-kickboxing most of the day. Order Chinese and play Settlers of Catan, then hang around (maybe drinking casually, maybe not) with some friends until 2, go to the diner (I love late night diner runs).</p>
<p>Saterday: Do homework + hang out in the afternoon. Go to a play or movie early evening. Go to a bigger party at a friend’s apartment (where people are drinking, though most not out of control, where I know most of the people, and there is dancing. It is certainly possible to have fun without drinking).</p>
<p>Anyway, that’s just me. As momindeed’s D says, there is NO pressure to drink/do drugs, or to do more than you’re comfortable with.</p>