<p>Just a clarification - I don’t think it’s true that “everyone basically does the loud party scene AND the more tame social scene” - or at least that’s not what I meant when I wrote that there’s not a big divide. As far as I can tell, lots of kids take a pass on the party scene completely - or only sample it - but they still have friends who do party and they have lots of things in common with them. But you won’t be alone looking for something to do just because there’s a big party going on on campus. I’ll let my daughter weigh in later.</p>