@collegemom3717 Thank you for your thoughtful response, I really appreciate it. With regards to why I know what I’m doing is right, for myself and my desire to pursue that language I want (which, being completely honest, is peripheral), transferring would be the right course of action. I understand that I should base my decisions based on how I feel, not on how others feel (which mostly guided my decision to go to my first university). But , I’m now in a difficult spot, because transferring twice raises a lot of questions about me (or so at least I think?) socially and professionally (I feel like kids at my new uni would view me as weird and I’m not sure how internships and future life relationships would work), but I just don’t know if enduring this is worth it I guess.