<p>I think one thing that I and Ann said was words such as “Mainly”, “Typical”, etc… indicating that a cadet wanting to leave early “Probably” didn’t look into what they were getting into deep enough. True, we don’t know this cadet’s full reasons, but that doesn’t take away from what is probable.</p>
<p>As far as helping them, the only advice that can be given is; “If you want to quit, then quit”. If they are looking for ways to make it work, to fit it, to stay, then personally, they should get advice from their peers there at the academy. Or should go to a counselor or someone at the academy for guidance. </p>
<p>As far as not knowing that the academy was free, that’s just plain silly. Did they not think it strange that no one asked them for money prior to driving or flying to the academy? Did they not read the “OVERVIEW” on the website that says:</p>
<p>“A West Point cadetship includes a fully funded four-year college education. Tuition, room, board, medical and dental care are provided by the U.S. Army. As members of the Armed Forces, cadets also receive an annual salary of more than $6,500. This pay covers the cost of uniforms, books, a personal computer, and living incidentals. By law, graduates of West Point are appointed on active duty as commissioned officers and serve in the U.S. Army for a minimum of five years.”</p>
<p>Sorry, but none of those are excuses. If they went through the entire process of getting an appointment and didn’t even read the 1st main page of the website, then there is no excuse for that. And don’t talk about that the academy ISN’T free, and all about the “Ultimate Price”. MANY of us know that price first hand.</p>
<p>No one has anything negative against this young cadet. leaving after only a couple of weeks however is a waste. My suggestion or advice is that they stick it out at least through the first semester. Trying to make the perfect environment in a matter of a couple of weeks isn’t enough. Home sickness, not fitting in, etc… are all part of growing up. The same happens to students in traditional colleges.</p>
<p>Either way, I wish that the military academies could allow more young people to get a chance to see and experience first hand what they are getting into. Then maybe things like this wouldn’t happen. There is an applicant that isn’t at West point because this person is. Unlike a sporting event where if an athlete is disqualified and they take the next one in line, the academy doesn’t allow a waiting list to replace those who drop out voluntarily; only for those who turn down the appointment. </p>
<p>With all the stereotypes about the military; physical conditioning, screaming, yelling, hair cuts, etc… There isn’t a military movie ever made that didn’t have many of these stereotypes. Will all this, they should have at least realized that this was not Berkley or some other touchie feelie college. Even if you don’t know everything about the academy, you have to know at least the “Military Stereotypes” and should have been a little concerned about that.</p>