The father of the groom is a very old friend of my husbands
He called and asked if we would attend the wedding. NYC in February. Ok.
My husband wanted to drive to nyc and then drive to Philly to see our daughter. That’s how much he knows about nyc. I said no, we will drive or fly to Philly and take the train to nyc. I wasn’t expecting a brunch and we have to commit 100+ days before.
We’ve already committed to the friend. They have very little family and will probably have very few people from the grooms side so it’s a nice thing to do. We did not invite them to either of our kids weddings