My wife went to Haverford and she is definitely an introvert. She loved it there but really only keeps in touch with one friend from college.
I have a couple good friends who went to Tufts- they are much more extroverted and enjoyed partying a lot more. They loved Tufts.
I am going to repeat what I have said before. Haverford is an awesome place for the right person but if you have doubts about it and it’s small size then it probably makes sense to choose another school. I think people that choose Haverford know for sure it’s the place for them.