Well, all three are fine academic institutions with great reputations. Tufts is clearly the largest, followed by Wesleyan then Haverford. Based on your sports and your skills, you might have an opportunity to play at the college level at all three.
If it helps any, Haverford is a short train ride to Philadelphia, and is part of a consortium which includes Swarthmore, U of Penn, and Bryn Mawr.