they are all in the same league as far as academics and prestige.
not sure why people are bringing up playing your sport for college- you didn’t.
mix of artsy and athletic sounds like a Tufts match to me. graduates I know were more than satisfied with the social scene. haverford is very small and therefore inclusive by necessity- I don’t think the consortium with Swat and Bryn MAwr will really make it seem bigger. It’s size is an advantage for the right person- I love that everyone eats together in one dining hall and that you might graduate knowing you met almost everyone there. But it doesn’t sound right for you and your social desires.