<p>Hey emilysh, so I am making almost the same decision but with UCB instead of UCLA. I totally understand the not wanting to give up either of the opportunities. Anyway during this struggle I was talking to a friend who recently committed to UC Davis and she thought writing down three non-negotiables that you want in your college helped. Dont think about either for a few days and just think about you NEED in the next four years of your life. I hope this helps. Good luck.</p>