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<p>my point in posting this was to discuss it, and…isn’t that what we’re doing? i’d say point accomplished.</p>
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<p>This sounds like you’re trying to blame the victim, which common sense tells us we should never do. </p>
<p>Most parties don’t have people ‘manning the doors’ (i’ve never been to one that did.) I’ve seen one UCLA party (with security guards) and it looked pretty dumb. But i guess things do happen so it’s understandable. But for a regular house party, really? The truth is that most people don’t do this. And in most reasonable places, people don’t randomly bring guns to whatever parties they’re going to, and then shoot people who confront them. But the victims are not to blame, they never are. Especially not for things like living in a known ‘bad area’ or not keeping up with who is allowed in their own house.</p>