@socaldad2002 We could have afforded 2, the 3rd was conceived while on birth control. We do not regret her one bit, though we did not plan on having 3 - the fact that the change from two to three drastically impacted our ability to save enough for college. Why aren’t people saying the same thing about poor people? Should we not give the pell kids any money because they couldn’t afford everything? Slippery slope stuff there.
The same issues apply to people with ONE kid, if their income is just a bit lower than ours. Same silly arguments apply there? Should they not have had any?