@ccprofandmomof2: There are several excellent Cal States that can give you the same residential experience as the UC’s: San Diego State and Cal Poly SLO to name a few and they can be just as competitive as many of the UC’s. Sure our kids work hard but they also need to be realistic about their chances. The UC’s have taken steps to cap the # of OOS/International students allowed to enroll and have made a commitment to accept more in-state applicants. Hopefully these positive steps will continue and just keep an open mind.
I personally think “fit” is very important for a student to have a fulfilling college experience which should include academics, financial considerations and the social aspects.
I had one son at a UC and have one at a Cal State and neither was or is lacking in any of these areas. I love the quote “Bloom where planted”.