<p>spudkid,</p>
<p>What makes one person uncomfortable feels right for someone else. I have incredibly stubborn kids who love to do things their own way but who will sometimes come and talk with me about what they want out of life. It would bother the heck out of me if the only thing I was there for was to sign the checks! Different folks…different strokes.</p>
<p>I was too tough on eatsleeprun and I’m glad she’s getting this problem resolved.</p>
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<p>There’s an interesting discussion about the relative merits of Chicago and Harvard going on over in the Harvard forum. Some of the responses may surprise you. See <a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/showthread.php?t=129508&page=1&pp=20[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/showthread.php?t=129508&page=1&pp=20</a>. You’ll need to scroll down the thread to get to the interesting part.</p>