Hi!
Sorry, can’t directly answer your question but just wanted to share that Im in the same boat as you. Currently picking UCLA vs Cal and im paying OOS tuition as well. Just wondering, do you know how much roughly you’re paying for both? I feel like for me, that’s gonna be a deciding factor (again, that’s just my personal case).
I got into chemical engineering for both schools and I have my heart set on Berkeley. I have talked to quite a few students from Cal and seems like i would enjoy being in berkeley. also works in my favor that i don’t need a car if i went to Cal. However, if it turns out that UCLA will cost me significantly less, then I may have to go there instead. UCLA was actually my first choice initially from how absolutely beautiful the campus is and how their dining is far better than Berkeley. But again, I was just drawn to berkeley based on what current students have shared to me. Also, Cal is ranked significantly higher than UCLA for ChemE. I’d say ask yourself which do you prioritize most. Cost of attendance? Ranking for your major? Location? Again for me, the deciding factor would be cost of attendance.
Sorry if this isn’t the answer you’re looking for but wanted to share my own situation as well. Good luck in deciding!