<p>ahduke: Well, you can’t just wait for people to ask you if you want to go somewhere with them. If you see your suitemates headed out to dinner, just invite yourself to join them. </p>
<p>The other option is that you and your roommate could have gone out for dinner together, without them.</p>
<p>I’ll just speak for myself here, but just listening to you on this board-- have you ever considered that your obvious disdain for “in-state” students is felt by those around you (who, according to you, are all in-state)? I’m only hearing you “virtually,” but if your attitude is anything like this in real life, as it appears here, there’s a reason you might be having trouble meeting people. You are creating, and certainly helping to foster, a division among students here that is so unnecessary. Again, your attitude <em>might</em> just translate-- in real life-- as a combination of superiority and disgust, which might make others feel you really don’t want to be with them at all.</p>
<p>That said, the old complaint about how everybody is in a frat but you . . . well, that just won’t fly here anymore. You got a bid to be in a fraternity you liked; they liked you; you chose to defer that. </p>
<p>Lastly, lighten up, or else-- you might as well go get yourself some cheese to go with that whine. ;)</p>