<p>Intervene now while he is only 16. You and your husband must be a united front- these kids are so MANIPULATIVE!!! I know because I have one. We forced him into rehab kicking and screaming at 18- Happy to say he is 20 years old 2 years sober and productive. It was grueling- your son will not get better without an intervention from skilled professionals in the field. Hang in there- there is hope -be tough.</p>