<p>I will second what Helicio said about Duke–the LGBT center has a big presence on campus. From what I can tell (I’m not gay), the LGBT community is very close-knit. Not sure if you’re looking for that, but either way it’s nice to know that it’s there. Regarding the Greek thing, I know a handful of Greeks who are gay (and out). I urge you to check out the Blue Devils United blog ([our</a> lives](<a href=“http://www.bluedevilsunited.com/]our”>http://www.bluedevilsunited.com/)), particularly this article: [our</a> lives: A Gay Greek’s Plea](<a href=“http://www.bluedevilsunited.com/2010/05/gay-greeks-plea.html]our”>our lives: A Gay Greek's Plea).</p>
<p>I don’t know much about Wake, but their Greek scene is much more traditional. You may be able to find a niche there, but my educated guess would be that you would have an easier time finding that at Duke.</p>