What timing. I just got a call from a niece for clarification about ds1’s wedding next month.
The kids have made clear that you must be vaxxed in order to attend so she wondered about kids who are too young to get vaxxed (yes, bring them!) and her brother and his family who aren’t vaxxed but have gotten Covid, all six of them, so have antibodies (no, don’t come). Will that cause hard feelings? No idea, but the kids aren’t willing to put the grandmas at any greater risk so there you go.
I really feel like this is an instance where you should give others lots of grace. Imagine being the aunt or uncle who isn’t invited but you are. I can preach this either way, and because of that I think that demonstrates that there are lots of ways to do this and not everyone will agree.