Weight Loss for Dummies

<p>Hello all! I haven’t posted for a while, but see that Ema did an amazing job losing weight and was able to buy much smaller clothes. Incredible … I hope she will tell us about the wedding!</p>

<p>I am doing pretty well. Caution: You may roll your eyes with how optimistic I am feeling. </p>

<p>I stopped focussing on the number on the scale, but instead on how I felt and how my legs and butt actually looked. I found that as I dropped out ridiculous carbs (white flour, anything with sugar) my body composition changed faster, and my weight hovered around the same ± 2 lbs. The cellulite on my legs has greatly reduced, and with all the walking and now slow running, my butt is not so floppy. I also have been listening to a podcast (the Health Bridge) which emphasizes optimal health and talks about Eastern and Western approaches to medicine and health. This is good for me, because they talk about how hormones play a huge role in you body’s set point for weight. Basically, if you eat healthier and avoid any processed foods, your body’s hormone system will kick back in and help you lose weight.</p>

<p>So, similar to Ema, I am watching my stupid carbs, making sure I am eating protein throughout the day, and not gorging when I go out to eat. I also do more social events that revolve around movement … An hour walk is a great way to catch up with a girlfriend or sister or daughter. I even use my cell phone and coordinate walks with my sister out West. If no one can join me, I load up a few podcasts on my iPhone and learn about healthy things while I walk.</p>

<p>With all my new movement, I had to see a physical therapist that recommended some hip strengthening exercises, and that has paid off nicely as I have been able to exercise as I build up muscles so I can eventually run. Apparently my cross country skiing helped my core and lungs, but certain muscles in my butt and hips were sleeping all winter, also because I sit so much at work.</p>

<p>So, my vote for all is to stop focussing on the weight (what number we should strive for) and instead focus on healthy eating, which changes your mood and body, and movement, which keeps your hormones in tilt.</p>

<p>If anyone wants more info on the different podcasts I like, let me know and I can point you to a few that help explain why exercise is good, why processed food is bad, and why just counting calories and your weight doesn’t always work.</p>

<p>If I am correct on my dates I think it is Happy Wedding Day for Ema!
Obviously I don’t know you in real life but I have had the pleasure of reading you grow into a strong confident young woman. Enjoy your day.
Welcome back Snowflake- I ran into a friend yesterday and she looked good. She also is not looking at number but has been focused on eliminating wharf and white carbs. She feels great and looks slimmer.
I would love some info on the podcasts.</p>

<p>I am sure Ema looks amazing!</p>

<p>Here are three websites and podcasts that are launch pads for the latest health research and information. </p>

<p>Podcasts can also be found on iTunes if you have an iPhone. I don’t know how it works in droids.</p>

<p><a href=“http://healthbridgeshow.com/”>http://healthbridgeshow.com/&lt;/a&gt;
One doctor is from Eastern medicine and the other is from Western medicine.
The focus on healthy living and discuss the science of hormones and other health topics.
On iTunes podcasts search on “Health Bridge”</p>

<p><a href=“Revolution Health Radio”>http://chriskresser.com/feed/podcast&lt;/a&gt;
Chris Kressor is into the science of how to stay healthy.
He helps convert complex science research into layperson language.
On iTunes podcasts search on “Chris Kressor”</p>

<p><a href=“http://thesmarterscienceofslim.com/”>http://thesmarterscienceofslim.com/&lt;/a&gt;
Jonathan Bailor is behind the concept of don’t weigh yourself and don’t count calories.
He has a co-host that helps him speak the science in layman’s terms.
On iTunes podcasts search on “The Calorie Myth” or “Jonathan Bailor”</p>

<p>If you know of others, let me know, as sometimes I get bored of the same people.</p>

<p>Everyone has to find the formula that works for them , but I have been a strong supporter of not becoming a slave to the number on the scale. Snowflake, your method has worked for me as well as countless others.<br>
Cut out most “stupid” carbs
Eat more protein. Snack based on protein.
Portion. Pay attention!<br>
Be more active - MAKE the time for this to happen. No excuses.
Listen to your body. Gain confidence based on how you feel not what the scale says.
Plan ahead for splurges. You can have them, but plan ahead and keep in mind portion.</p>

<p>Congrats to Ema!</p>

<p>Here’s an article about the new documentary “Fed Up”. Much of the research discussed in the film seems to confirm what many of us have come to believe-- that all calories are not alike and there is more to weight loss than calories in < calories out.</p>

<p><a href=“'Fed Up' Asks, Are All Calories Equal? - The New York Times”>'Fed Up' Asks, Are All Calories Equal? - The New York Times;

<p>Thanks everyone! You guys know very well how hard I worked to look good in my dress, so this seems like the best place to share! I know the photographer got some great shots I’d love to share when they come in, but in the meantime I have a few shots my friend took… </p>

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<p>I felt like I got hit by a bus this morning, but everything worked out and went perfectly. So many people told us it was the best wedding they ever went to, and the food was delicious and abundant and the music was great. The dance floor was packed all night and the families blended really well and had a great time. I had the most wonderful time dancing with my new brothers and sisters! </p>

<p>Now on to the honeymoon! We have a LOT of packing and errands to do before we leave… at 3am on Tuesday morning. Honestly I am excited for the trip, but I am also really looking forward to normalcy when we get home. All this decadent food is making me sick. The best thing I think to say to newbies to weight loss is that it does not stay as hard as it is in the beginning… once your body remembers what it’s like to be healthy, it won’t want to let you stop and it will help you make better choices! Cake is not as tasty when more than a small serving gives you a tummy ache. </p>

<p>See you in a week!</p>

<p>You are so beautiful (and your hubby is not bad looking either ;)). Have a wonderful trip!</p>

<p>Gorgeous! And you have beautiful curves in all the right places. Enjoy the honeymoon!</p>

<p>Oh ema, you look so beautiful! Thanks so much for sharing. You look great!</p>

<p>ema, I was about to say your husband looked older than I expected and realized that photo must be your Dad! You look lovely - I love the dress and you look fabulous in it. Congratulations! So nice to put a face on a longtime poster.</p>

<p>lol yes, one of those is me with my dad as we started to walk down the aisle. My husband is almost exactly half his age. :P</p>

<p>I think that is the first time I have said “my husband.” Whoopee! :slight_smile: </p>

<p>Were it not for all those bicep curls I did I’d have never made it. My bouquet must have weighed close to ten pounds. The photographer also took a shot of all the groomsmen holding me up-- I told them, “Aren’t you glad I don’t weigh 40lbs more anymore?”</p>

<p>Ema, you are beautiful and looks SO happy in the pics. Thank you for sharing!</p>

<p>You look gorgeous and happy. LOVE the pictures. Just perfect!</p>

<p>You are even prettier than I imagined, and the dress looks great. I love the purple flowers and bridesmaid dress.</p>

<p>This is what I have learned in the past few weeks. Our local Saks, Neimans, and Bloomingdales no longer carry non couture dresses. (Too many people bought a dress to wear for an evening and returned it). And there are times when you say…Do what you want…I’m not paying anymore_. And our son wanted barbeque take out for dinner.</p>

<p>…and get your facelift at least 5 months of the wedding.</p>

<p>I found a GORgeous dress on Saks or Niemans online. It was Friends and Family…not costly at all.
Sent bride and mob to the venue…told them to duke it out with the venue AND their wallets. Done…MOB is 52 over her max and the venue said that they will deal with it. And someone on that side is paying for it.</p>

<p>We are having 60 people here for a dinner. My son wants Texas barbeque…with pork ribs. I will have separate areas in my home for the vegetarians and the carnivores. We I will go and purchase plastic plates, cups/ and silverwear. AND we are so under budget for this that we are giving the kids a cruise for a honeymoon! </p>

<p>As for the facelift…done. </p>

<p>…and I completely sound like a bhb (Beverly Hills Brat)… I get that :)</p>

<p>Congratulations!! You did it!</p>

<p>Awwww! Thank you for sharing. Happy for you- and yes, beautiful and handsome. </p>

<p>BevHills, I got my (MOG) dress from Off Saks 5th Avenue for about 75% off! I love it so much I would have been happy to pay full price. (I try it on at random times just because I like it so much. Fits like it was made for me.)</p>

<p>Our son (almost newly-minted PhD) and future DIL (newly-minted JD) insist on doing their own wedding. I am sure it will be low key but lovely. Not wanting the rehearsal dinner to be “fancier” than the wedding it will be some kind of catered picnic. I need to start making phone calls as the wedding is in another state. Caterers in the Boston area, might be a new thread.</p>

<p>Ema, you did look great. But just wanted to remind everyone that this is not a wedding thread, of which there are legion. Also, it doesn’t seem to be stated in the Terms of Service, but I’m pretty sure we’re not supposed to post photos, at least I haven’t seen them being used within posts. Probably because content will get lost amongst photos if everyone starts adding them. Links to photo sites seem to be fine.</p>

<p>Back to Weight Loss for Dummies - afraid to weigh in after lack of exercise not to mention Mother’s Day Brunch. I planned to wear my “temperature dress” (you long-termers may remember that) but it was a bit too tight to comfortably wear. Lots of hard work and strict attention ahead! I’ve really got to get back to my very successful routine of past times; next month will be three years since I joined this thread.</p>

<p>At least my hardware removal surgery went well. Dmd77 was correct; getting the hardware out was TONS easier than getting it in! I got the stitches out last Thursday and other than the incision scars, my only issues currently are stiffening and a bit of swelling.</p>

<p>That’s great news, Marilyn! And thanks for getting us back on topic. (In my defense, I joined this thread 5 months and 10 pounds ago with an eye to DS’s upcoming nuptials.) Today I am feeling “puffy” again. Shoes are tight (I did buy running shoes one half size up) and fingers are swollen. It seems so random; all I can guess is hormonal fluctuations from perimenopause. I don’t think the heat is helping (but after last winter, I’m not complaining).</p>