Thought I’d post a follow-up about the blanket. I ended up getting this one https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07SBYFZFP which was recommended online. I tried it a few nites and then returned it. It seemed nicely made and had a good heft (I got the 20lb blanket) but I didn’t sleep any different than I did before. Glad weighted blankets help some people but I guess I’m not one of them.