We visited both and my daughter applied to both - interested in studying theater (she got into Northwestern ED and rescinded her apps.) I think if she’d gotten into both, she would’ve gone to Wesleyan. Stronger academics and what seemed to be a little more of a vibrant theater community. She liked Oberlin a lot but it’s location left something to be desired as well. Does your child feel that either is a better fit? Wesleyan has a mix of the preppy/jock vibe and artsy/quirky whereas Oberlin definitely leans more artsy/quirky.