<p>I noticed similar things at Wesleyan as Shawbridge and the son. Everyone was very nice, but they did seem a bit more edgy than me and I just didn’t feel like I could fit in with the general college atmosphere (but then I met people that didn’t dress hipster-ish too, so I’m sure I could friends at Wes). Iunderstand ljean’s point of view too-- the visit is just a snippet of the college, and any one thing can become the deciding factor. I just happened to stay with kids at Wes that were drinking, but I’m sure if I had stayed with other kids they wouldn’t have been. It’s really just the luck of the draw.</p>