Funny - I disagree - I think the OP clearly likes Vassar better.
You likely won’t go often to town - and one school has 54% female and the other 58% - so the balance isn’t that different - especially considering the school size.
Because LACs don’t have engineering and football, it’s natural to skew female.
The rank isn’t relevant - they’re both huge names. Vassar, to me, while ranked lower is better known nationally.
Good luck.