<p>I’m a Vassar student. When I visited a friend at Wesleyan a few months ago, I was in awe at how similar the student body was. If you’re going by the numbers, admissions standards between the two schools are not as different as many people on this board make them out to be. There are plenty of straight guys on campus. The existence of one all-girls dormitory renders life in the other dorms very evenly coed.</p>