What am I doing wrong? What gives?

[katho11]

<p>I had to go back to see what this thread was…yeah, I don’t get how thinking someone is an immature man-whore makes me bitter? Or how thinking that apparently makes some folks think that I must be some fat, ugly chick that couldn’t get a guy if my life depended on it. </p>

<p>All I was saying is that it’s not some huge accomplishment to sleep with a ton of people…and that going around bragging about it like you’re some sort of hero makes you a ■■■■■■ as far as I’m concerned. Oh well.</p>

[Vail]

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well i’ve definitely learned one thing over the last couple of months, some people have it naturally, and others don’t. i most likely won’t be getting into any relationships in college, but not by choice. the bright side i guess is that there is less stress involved, but i’d only be fooling myself if that’s the excuse i use for the next 3 years.</p>

<p>yea i like my stability. on a scale out of 10 my mood is usually a 5. it’s just neutral or average. not exciting happens, but i’m usually occupied so i can’t really get bored.

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<p>Well, that’s that then, its good that you’ve come to accept the fact instead of being dissatisfied with your life in general. And the ‘less stress’ thing shouldn’t be an excuse, it should be seen as an upside, and as you continue through college, you’ll probably find other good reasons why staying out of a relationship is right for you.</p>

[BP-TheGuy88]

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Well, that’s that then, its good that you’ve come to accept the fact instead of being dissatisfied with your life in general. And the ‘less stress’ thing shouldn’t be an excuse, it should be seen as an upside, and as you continue through college, you’ll probably find other good reasons why staying out of a relationship is right for you.

I never said I was satisfied with my life either. Everything for me has lost meaning. The only difference is that now I don’t have to deal with problems that other people cause for me so things have generally been stable and steady in that sense. I wish things could be better. Btw, college is a joke as far as I’m concerned so I don’t see how I’m going to find good reasons why staying out of relationships is right for me. As far as I’m concerned, a relationship won’t kill me (unless the other person kills me, literally). What doesn’t kill, only makes you stronger.</p>