<p>Of course there are no right or wrong answers. It’s all opinion and, as with anything, it’s all relative. </p>
<p>But the reason there is so much credit card debt, defaults on mortgages and reliance on government assistance is poor management of money. People leverage their money utilizing the wrong kinds of debt and indulge in things they can’t afford because they have a false notion of how much money they really have and how far money can really go.</p>
<p>Get $15,000 in credit card debt, a few kids, a mortgage, various kinds of insurance, a few cars and you’ll quickly realize how fast $200,000 can be chewed through. God forbid you want to send them to private school to give them a chance at a better future, get ready for some more fees.</p>
<p>As a young person, when you have no expenses and your income is so low it’s barely taxed, it’s easy to fall into a trap of thinking an amount like $200,000 is a lot of money when you don’t realize the expenses of your higher income and desired lifestyle. And relative to the household income of many, as you pointed out, it isn’t. But when you start getting into debt (especially when you have credit card debt at 10%+ that continue to compound) it’s not all gravy.</p>
<p>…And then on top of trying to pay down your debt with the extra money you have you want to try and provide for your family with being able to alleviate them of the need to get student loads to go to college and put enough away so you can have a comfortable retirement in a few decades without relying on the government for money that may or may not be there.</p>
<p>So, relative to the lifestyles of the average American in particular, no, $200,000 isn’t an outrageous amount of money to say the least. Especially when you get into larger centers. </p>
<p>I’m moving to NYC for the summer months and a sublet in Manhattan in a good neighborhood that’s not a shoe box will be a good 5k a month or so. There are a few good spots in neighborhoods less desirable, for me personally, that are 3k. </p>
<p>The real world is an expensive place. Especially when you have ambition, especially when you’re job requires you to present yourself a certain way and especially when you’re trying to start any type of business and you aren’t talking straight salary. </p>
<p>Again it’s all relative, and there’s no right or wrong. But your derogatory remarks aren’t going to get you far, financially or otherwise. They come across as jealous and insecure.</p>
<p>Remember OP allegedly was coming out of Stanford looking for a big business job. Stanford grad coming out of 7± years, paid for with student loads who gets a job at Goldman NYC for 200k a year and now should move to Manhattan, get a few good suits, be able to feed himself, have some for going out and possibly put some away for a home, some for retirement, etc. Realize how much that lifestyle costs? And living right in NYC your taxes will be, what, 35%±?</p>
<p>And that’s the lifestyle a lot of NYU Stern, Harvard, etc. business or law grads have to come to grips with. They don’t necessarily assume a lifestyle, their job does. So even though that 200k in Montana may get them everything they want and more they aren’t going to get that job there. That’s the catch and that’s why I never react wildly at Harvard grads going into $100,000-200,000 jobs… because the environment and culture that job is possibly submersed in will cost a lot of money to be part of.</p>
<p>…The job will determine where they live, how much they’ll need to spend to look presentable, dinners with co-workers, etc. </p>
<p>That’s the absolute beauty of the free market. Amazing really.</p>