My son is a quirky one. He is somewhat oriented towards math but is not a prodigy but more of a “grinder” student. He works very hard and it doesn’t come easy and he typically ends up with like a 91 or 92%. He got a 4 on AP exam and a few classmates earned a 5. He seems to enjoy statistics and is taking the AP version of that course at his school.
On the other hand, he is part of the broadcasting club at his school and has a sports podcast that has done well (won a cool regional award) and when I talk with him this kind of work seems to excite him more.
I don’t think he is opposed to the East Coast. I did so when I was 18 and it turned out being a great adventure after I got over some homesickness. He is a bit of a homebody, through and we, like so many, probably helicoptered too much and didn’t let him figure out enough stuff on his own.
I don’t think we are hung up on the prestigious name. I went to a big name, high cost school for undergrad 25 years ago and I don’t think it pencils out (the amount of debt one has to take on to make it happen).
Thanks for the thoughtful post.