<p>You might want to check out U of Rochester. They are strong in physics, and they have some interesting programs and projects going on integrating music and sciences. Eastman School of Music is part of that, and you can take secondary lessons there if you are strong enough on piano. Still, there is plenty of music instruction going on at U of R itself. There is a lot of flexibility in your program at U of R. It might be worth a look.</p>