<p>Celebrian, don’t worry, my #2 hasn’t gotten shortchanged, even though we don’t have “equal” everything. Its just that with her, money that would have gotten spent on photos gets spent on clothes. If the son/daughter photo ratio was 20:1, the shoe purchase ratio is 1:20. D. hasn’t yet decided what shoes she will wear to graduation, but since that involves walking across stage in front of an audience, I am sure that it will be a very complex decision and will involve heels high enough to make her look as tall as possible ;)</p>