<p>because I study in an american school with expatriated americans</p>
<p>hehehe, i actually know some guys would break up with a girl for putting out too soon…</p>
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You just said what I was thinking and wouldn’t say so thanks.</p>
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Wow, is that your main objective? You should come to my school. We’ve got a lot of girls who would not only put out within one month, but would put out within the hour.
Freddy, where are you from?</p>
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<p>1.He must be taller than me. At 5’4 this isn’t hard lol
2.I must be attracted to him. I don’t believe relationships where one partner is attracted and the other isn’t are ever successful.
3.Playing a sport is a plus. :)</p>
<p>Oh… wow… is that in the ghetto? And what’s with the word “expatriated” do you mean different?</p>
<p>Why is a girl putting out in a month considered crazy? In high school, I would say its unreasonable. From college onward, a month is a long time to not put out.</p>
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<p>I don’t think it’s crazy at all. Depends on your morals and beliefs and whatnot. You’d be surprised what a month does. 
Then there are cases when you actually get to know the person so well that you figure, “Eh, I’m probably know what I need to about him/her.” It happens sometimes.</p>
<p>a month isn’t considered all that long here. If you’re the type of girl that “puts out” then you’re not going to wait longer than a month. If you’re not that type of girl, you won’t do it ever anyways.</p>
<p>yeah Jill_Kelly, i’m glad i’m not the only one…</p>
<p>what does putting out actually include. i mean, can one put out by giving a bj or a hand-job… or does it have to be actual sex. b/c i think that if putting out is defined by the former, then it would be a lot more common for highschoolers to “put out” within a month…</p>
<p>The latter. I wouldn’t consider it too common in high school.</p>
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<p>Most defintely. 
Shrimps are all fine and dandy for some, but what the hell does that do for me?</p>
<p>Blow jobs are so trendy these days. I think putting out can definitely include BJs and handjobs. BJs can actually be more intimate than the act of sex itself, I think. The act of putting out means to give a guy pleasure in some way that goes beyond kissing and involves touching a *****. Somehow. Some might disagree.</p>
<p><strong>EDIT</strong> I did not know CC censored the textbook term for the male anatomy. Chickens. :p</p>
<p>I’m not well-endowed. Oh well, guess I’m out of the running.</p>
<p>i sorta agree Jill. I mean, putting your mouth on that thing is much more personal than having it shoved inside of you…</p>
<p>wow, i loved how FreddyGV and I completely changed the entire topic of this thread…</p>
<p>Junior, oh, that’s too bad…</p>
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<p>True… Unless you find both to be repulsive.</p>
<p>yeah, i don’t know about actually giving a blow job… i mean, putting your mouth on something that they p-ss out of… i would have to be really, really turned on or really, really wasted to actually give a bj. and i doubt that either of those things will happen anytime soon.</p>
<p>^same with me. I mean I eat with my mouth…why’d I want to have an area where pee comes out inside of my mouth?</p>
<p>oh, celeb, i am so glad that someone agrees. i mentioned this to a few of my friends, and they were all like “it’s not that big of deal, urine is very sterile” but yeah, i am still repulsed by the idea.</p>
<p>Yes, definitely. I also am not a fan of the position one must be in to do it- it seems like a really submissive act to some dominating male. Maybe that’s just me :p</p>
<p>i completely agree. especially how guys will force your head down and such (at least my friend said that her boyfriend forced her head down)… it is complete male domination.</p>