What do u seek in the opposite gender?

<p>Well, I realized what I wrote a sec before I submitted and then added the laughter, heh. Struck me as amusing at the time because it had been completely unintentional.</p>

<p>Someone I know who got banned many times is back as Pimpervious. Obvs. :p</p>

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That slang cracks me up too, especially because it is what you do at a restaurant.</p>

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Really?!
Is it John?
Jacob?
Jingle-heimer?
Shmitz?</p>

<p>hmmm, i wonder who it is…</p>

<p>if it’s just a one nighter or a short fling…some nice tits and ass is all i need…</p>

<p>but if i was looking for a companion and/or a long term relationship with a girl…which i’m probably going to start doing the next couple years… it would probably be similar to what some of you have already posted. </p>

<p>sense of humor, personality, trust, intelligence, motivation to succeed, and at least some common interests…</p>

<p>basically someone that’s interesting, engaging, and just plain fun to be around…</p>

<p>Friendship and open-mindedness.</p>

<p>I’m gay, so really my take on this thread is what I seek in girls in general, as friends (not necessarily what I seek in a potential lover/soulmate).</p>

<p>Maybe someone should start a more inclusive thread? ;)</p>

<p>-Jon :)</p>

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wow. thanks for being so honest.</p>

<p>Honesty, truly is, the best policy.</p>

<p>So what about my entire post? Was it not extremely honest as well?</p>

<p>Haha, I realize, Hotpiece, that we posted in the same minute, so I’m sure you didn’t just overlook my post ;)</p>

<p><em>Sigh</em> …the plight of gay CCers :wink: lol, j/k :D</p>

<p>Well Jon, you could always adjust the question since it was obviously towards who you’re attracted to. You could just tell us what you look for in a guy :p</p>

<p>i could never overlook you, apdoolittle…</p>

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<p>lol sry, i think that post is actually a bit misleading…i kinda made it sound like it happens all the time…but it really couldn’t be further from the truth. </p>

<p>i had my heart broken about a year ago after a long term relationship i was in dissolved…and i promised myself i would try to not get too attached for awhile to see what it was like. one night stands really aren’t all they’re cracked up to be… </p>

<p>it’s definitely fun to try out, but it doesn’t compare…sex just feels a bit empty without that love and compassion you feel for someone.</p>

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Yes, thanks for the honesty. Helps me to know which guys I should stay away from. :)</p>

<p>haha jill_kelly. :p</p>

<p>Haha, gee Celebrian & Hotpiece, thanks for rolling out the welcome wagon :wink: I appreciate it (and I’ve missed ya both)!</p>

<p>Hmm… what do I seek in a potential significant other?</p>

<p>The most important quality is definitely personality (as trite/clich</p>

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<p>heyyyyyy… :p</p>

<p>I hate you APDoolittle, but I only because I want to be you.</p>

<p>Thanks, lablondie… I guess?</p>

<p>Haha, I grew up being taught that people hate b/c they’re jealous. It has comforted me in the worst of times.</p>

<p>I guess I understand what you mean, lablondie. Many people have told me that they envy me for being such a fair and loving person (even if I am gay).</p>

<p>You know what lablondie? I love you… but only b/c I don’t know you yet. I love everyone until I get to know them… and then I begin to love people less - but I can never hate anyone :)</p>

<p>-Jon :)</p>

<p>Yeah, you’ll stop loving me as soon as you get to know me. Of course, you probably won’t get to know me, so it’s all good.</p>

<p>The funny thing is, if you hate me now, you’d hate me more if you met me (haha), but I’m sure I won’t have the pleasure of meeting you, so it’s all good here too. Haha, except for the whole “hating” part ;)</p>

<p>AP Doolittle, you have such a positive outlook on life and that’s really admirable. Jealousy does manifest into hate, sad but true.</p>