I’m sure you and your dh are lovely people, but I would NOT have wanted my in-laws to have been day-to-day grandparents.
We moved away from dh and ds’s home state to live at the beach. Ds has no plans to return to his home state. No doubt we will be vacation grandparents. We live on the opposite side of the state from the mouse, but it’s only a couple of hours to WDW. I think that is going to help, too.