@ucbalumnus IDK Our grandparents had two world wars. Not just some racism but segregation. Heck my dad had to go down south during segregation for training. And he had the Viet Nam war. And then the grandparents had the great depression. And ours had large families. One of which in the tiniest house. Started college but had to put away all those dreams to work for family. Stuck with no educational prospects. The cold war with Russia. And somehow they remained optimistic for the future.
@stardustmom Yeah. More to it.