@bodangles That’s pleasant to hear. I guess I will have to put myself way out there then, thanks.
I like to think ahead in the future about events, giving lots of thoughts into many stuff so I can make my decision much simpler, it’s just weird.
@NCalRent Thank you for the tips. It sounds simple and forward. I’ll keep these in mind.
@youcee I’ve heard about UCLAs position, never knew that about UCSB! 
@takeitallin I believe maturity is the result of one’s individual experiences, but yes, I guess you do have a point of maturity level not on equilibrium with freshman and transfers. I hope that is the case, because I’m also wondering if anyone has had experiences with living in apartments and still having just as much opportunities to meet people as first years do.
Thanks all for the comments, I’ll refer back to this much later.