- Connect with the AO. Ask questions, even if you can assume most of the answers from the website. Write an email or two and reiterate your interest in the school. This is the most important thing. The AO wants to know if they accept you that you WILL come especially if you are applying to other similar schools in the same area.
- Get to know the school. Listen to the head of school. What do they value? It that a fit for you/your child? If so, then pursue it, if it's a great school with an impressive rep but doesn't fit your kid apply elsewhere.
- Get good recommendations. Let's face it some people write really great recommendations that tell a story. Others write flat stats and details. This can really make you stand out or fall flat.
- If you have a sport, talk to the coach. Send your stats/video etc. If you are on a Club team make sure your club sends a recommendation even it it isn't required. If you regularly see the coach at events say hi and introduce yourself ( not every 8th grader can do this). But the ones who make a connection have a serious edge. Same goes for arts, music etc. These are your unique features.
- Don't conflate high SSAT scores with high acceptance rates. At many schools there are tons of kids with 95%+ scores.
- Don't apply to just PEA and PA. Find YOUR school.
- Look outside NE. There are some great schools. Also, if you come from one area do not apply only to schools in that area as your competition will be much tougher. Even worse if you are truly local or need FA.
- Picture yourself at that school. Can you really envision it? It it your dream or just something to impress others? Is this school your best path?