My kids have expressed interest in silver & china and since I have my mother’s sets and mine, that will work out fine for the two of them. D also wants Christmas china. The thing that they will “fight” over is the cute Advent calendar with an ornament to hang on a tree each day. They had to take turns growing up and used to text home their choices during college when one of them would start it up. S’s wife asked for an Advent calendar this year and I forgot to ask if they received it. It would solve the problem of who gets our family’s. D claims she will fight her brother over it. There are some art items they are each interested in as well, but nothing as contentious as the Advent calendar.