S2 is not sentimental in the slightest, so would want nothing other than any pots and pans needed to fill his collection. S1 would want some of the Christmas decorations, and a few mementos from his childhood. That’s pretty much it. I have told them my jewelry should go to the female cousins, as I doubt either son will marry.
I figure I am doing them a favor by getting rid of as much stuff as possible because they certainly won’t want it. If I think they might want something I do ask them but 99% of the time the answer is no.