hi! I don’t rlly have good advice for you about college but your ec’s look p decent for a freshman—I def did not have that many activities going on when I was a freshman lol (I’m a rising senior now). and I totally get the whole parents thing- my dad is kinda like that too (hes also an immigrant lmao) but also we haven’t brought up the whole topic of college in a long time. eventually your dad is gonna need to understand that his thought are illogical and unrealistic and, when you apply to college, please do not only apply for only ivies since they’re very high reach schools for anyone and rejection from all of them is super likely. when you apply, make sure to apply to a wide variety of schools with varying acceptance rates, even if he tells you to apply for ivies only or something. hopefully over these 4 next years of high school your father will begin to understand how everything works in terms of college here. I’m sorry abt your mother, I hope she can recover, and I hope youre doing better with your mental health. <3