<p>College isn’t about fitting in. On the contrary, it’s about fully becoming who you are. </p>
<p>*For what it’s worth, my D wears jeans and tops. She is a midwestern girl, and she just can’t get into the traditional brands/styles favored by many southerners. She doesn’t draw looks of horror and loathing due to her fashion choices. Because she wouldn’t be interested in guys who would want her to dress in a way she chooses not to dress, and she wouldn’t want to be friends with girls who would want her to look a certain way, it’s not an issue for her. * </p>
<p>Amen. Your daughter seems similar to me. People who judge others on how they dress should really open their minds more.</p>