<p>middle aged father went to Stanford and is still involved in many different aspects including new freshmen.</p>
<p>looking like a southern belle at Stanford has been, is, and will be NOT the thing to do. most Stanford kids are more interested in the books and being “themselves”.</p>
<p>I was at Stanford most of last week and will be there in a month for an alum function and will be there at the beginning of the year.</p>
<p>Sorry, I think I know the correct advice.</p>